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Phil, I offer this without rancor to you or others in the legal profession, but to the people who use this tactic:
*if things aren't working to your advantage, threaten to call a lawyer.
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I hear you, Red. In his book, The Audacity of Hope, Barack Obama makes this very point: "If we aren't willing to pay a price for our values, if we aren't willing to make some sacrifices in order to realize them, they we should ask ourselves whether we truly believe in them at all."The challenge, he also makes, it to see where we spend our time, energy, and money. "By these standards at least, it sometimes appears that Americans today value nothing so much as being rich, thin, young, famous, safe, and entertained." He, too, recites a litany of values we assert and subvert - the legacy we leave to the next generation mortgaged by this, "equal opportunity" and yet we "stand idle while millions of American children languish in poverty", family, and then structure our economy and lives so that our families get less and less of our time. But his rhetorical point is this: And yet a part of us knows better. We hand on to our values, even if they seem at time tarnished and worn; even if, as a nation and in our own lives, we have betrayed them more often than we care to remember. ... Those values are our inheritance, what makes us who we are as a people. And although we recognize that they are subject to challenge... they are surprisingly durable and surprisingly constant across classes, and races, and faiths, and generations. We can make claims on their behalf, so long as we understand that our values must be tested against fact and experience, so long as we recall that they demand deeds and not just words. So, the first question is "What are those values?" But the follow-up question is "What are we going to do about that?" I'm not saying that we can't share those values with others, they need not be uniquely American (and indeed I hope they are not), but what is it that we, as Americans, think we stand for? What is it that draws so many to our shores and that so many other nations seek to emulate?
A well reasoned argument is like a diamond: impervious to corruption and crystal clear - and infinitely rarer.
Here, as elsewhere, people are outraged at what feels like a rigged game -- an economy that won't respond, a democracy that won't listen, and a financial sector that holds all the cards. - Robert Reich
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NWP... I don't want to mix "Rights" with values. I think that most of us certainly value the rights that the Constitution permits, but values extend beyond fundamental rights. A few years ago an Assoc. Professor at Winthrop University by the name of Guy Reel talked about American Values in an article of the same name. ( Reel Link ) Prof. Guy Reel listed and stated the following: What is America? What are the values it has most fought for and admired? A few of the first, and most important, come to mind: Freedom.
Equality.
Democracy.
Champion of the little guy.
Helper of the oppressed.
Defender against tyranny.
Some of the other values are ingrained in our history and our belief in our future:
Capitalism.
Independence.
Strength.
Rightness and righteousness.
Manifest destiny.
God.
Freedom of religion.
Family.
Wealth.
Faith.
Entertainment and happiness.
(SNIP)
He went on to say:
Even a casual reader of these values can see where conflicts might arise among them. Capitalism and strength have made America great, but they have generated their own set of inequalities. Our wealth is unequaled, but Jesus taught that our faith should make wealth meaningless. Equality is a wonderful ideal, but frankly, not everyone is created equal. Freedom is fine until we see our vast money-obsessed entertainment and happiness apparatus assaulting us with base immorality, cowardly news, and stupidity. I think that I could make a list pretty much like Prof. Reel. In fact, my list would probably look similar to your list and others who post a list, but there is a reality about values and I think that the paragraph following Prof. Reel's list kinda speaks to some of the problems in defining values. I think the the problems are way more complex than even Professor Reel talks about. But, I think that until we get "American Values" off of the Poltically Incorrect List" we are going to flounder and argue about the core meaning and ideas regarding American Values.
Turn on ANY brand of political machine - and it automatically goes to the "SPIN and LIE CYCLE" 
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I'm not saying that we can't share those values with others, they need not be uniquely American (and indeed I hope they are not), but what is it that we, as Americans, think we stand for? What is it that draws so many to our shores and that so many other nations seek to emulate? You have to wonder if nations seek to emulate us anymore. Agreed there was a time when they did but can that still be said? Do many come to these shores because of an old ideal that exists in their minds but no longer exists in reality? My guess is many come for "hope", hope of a better life, hope of more freedom, hope of more money to feed their families. One thing America does offer is hope, not a value but IMM something we do stand for.
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I'm not sure that hope isn't as valid a value, Red, and it encompasses many more - an expection of freedom, a belief that merit matters, that tyranny will be countered, that one can "get ahead." So, I think it should be added to the list. I want to talk in terms of aspiration primariy, and demonstration as it follows from this. As Professor Reel indicates: America is a balancing act. Sometimes we slip off the wire. No one said it would be easy. No one said it was simple. It's a work in progress, and it always will be. The danger to America is when we allow those who vilify basic American values to have the loudest voices. He also says: This is the true American value: We are a nation of compromises. The Constitution is a document of concessions between competing interests. We weigh the right of the accused against the power of prosecutors; we weigh the power of judges against Congress and the president; we weigh the power of the people against the strength of the government. I think what is most true is that the power of the government derives from the people, so we have a responsibility to keep that government in line.
A well reasoned argument is like a diamond: impervious to corruption and crystal clear - and infinitely rarer.
Here, as elsewhere, people are outraged at what feels like a rigged game -- an economy that won't respond, a democracy that won't listen, and a financial sector that holds all the cards. - Robert Reich
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I think what is most true is that the power of the government derives from the people, so we have a responsibility to keep that government in line. I'm with you on that comment NWP. I think that Prof. Reel certainly frames a realist view of how we may be inclined to make considerations regarding "American Values" when we are engaged to even make consideration. But, as a nation...we've somehow moved away from making consideration of values. I'd love to wiggle my nose and all would be right with the world and more especially America, but I can't. As Prof. Reel points out, America is a work in progress, but in order for there to be progress, we have to come together as a nation, construct common values and goals. Over the past couple or few decades, we have sorted groups of folks who make that difficult to attain. We have a government who wants us divided. Who wants us uninformed. Who wants its citizens obiedent and grateful. Gosh, that sounds like some weird OTHER government in some other country doesn't it? Thanks for this topic NWP...sincerely, I mean it. I value being able to post what I just did...  Can't do that in China or Iran.
Turn on ANY brand of political machine - and it automatically goes to the "SPIN and LIE CYCLE" 
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I think what is most true is that the power of the government derives from the people, so we have a responsibility to keep that government in line. How true. Austin: You could post it in China or Iran, however you would probably be imprisoned for it. I guess I'm a bit skiddish of the idea of "American Values" due to the amount of Patriotic fervor that followed 9/11. Plus I don't just consider myself an "American" but a citizen of the world because I do believe that we live on one planet not just in one country. My values would be my values no matter where I lived but I think I get what you are saying. I'm completely sure that I have defined value in a way that isn't intertwined with principle.
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Phil said:
"Actual American values: *spend your way to happiness *buy more *do whatever it takes to get "ahead" *whatever you do look good doing it *it's not my fault *what's in it for me?
Just thought I'd bring some reality to the discussion."
At first I was thinking this was kind of funny but then I realized that this pretty much sums it all up.
A good subject though.
Freedom, prosperity, hope, equality, strength are all words that come to mind when I think of what "American Values" *should* be.
The words "American Values" conjure up certain thoughts in my mind.
I think of the 75 year old white man* with the modest, clean house, with well kept yard, wife in the kitchen making some grub. There would be pictures of their three children and grandchildren sitting on top of the upright piano. The guy's probably got an old, worn out tattoo of an anchor on his forearm that he got when he was in the war. There's probably a Navy flag flying out front next to "Old Glory". The man always told the kids "never tell a lie", "work hard" and "take care of your family", etc. He's just your regular average Joe who served his country, knows the value of hard work and good old fashioned honesty.
I know this man. He doesn't necessarily have a name. Rather, he has many names. This is the vision of MY America as I was growing up. This is what I am accustomed to. I don't say it is the only way, I don't say it is the right way or the wrong way. It's just the way I know.
When I think of "American Values", I think of that guy in that scenario: "old school", middle class, family oriented.
I realize that this is not the America that everybody knows. It's just the one I know from a more innocent time.
Nowadays, I look around me and I see the manifestation of the "Values" in Phil's list.
That old guy I described, he could be my Dad or my Grandpa... What happened to his kids? His grandkids? My Fellow Americans?
I grew up around men like the one I described. They seemed like real stand-up guys - you know - Truth, Justice, The American Way.
Where is the disconnect between guys like that and the lying, cheating, corner-cutting people I see around me?
Sometimes I wonder if I'm just getting old and out of touch.
One thing I know for sure though, at least around here, people are very self centered. Image, Money, More, Me!
We're Doomed!
* Just to be clear, I'm not suggesting that white, middle class and hetero are the only acceptable options when it comes to "Values". That's just the background I come from.
You broke it but you wanna see it shatter...
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Phil's da man wiff da plan...
Good list, Phil. It cerainly isn't a candy coated list of values.
Turn on ANY brand of political machine - and it automatically goes to the "SPIN and LIE CYCLE" 
Yours Truly - Gregg
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