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So, in order to be truely altruistic... one would have to serve the interests of others in some manner that would not at the same time correspond to your own interests? I can hardly be in a position to define a word for a motivation that I do not think exists, Ardy. In other words, I am not trying to prove the existance of that which I consider non-existant.:-) Yours, Issodhos
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Whether it be Mother Theresa, Save the Children, community organizers, Habitat for Humanity, etc., they are motivated to satisfy their own needs, desires, and expectations. And you know this .... how exactly?
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I conjecture that Iss does not care for the concept or the ideas associated with it and therefore will seek to define it in a way that makes it easy to show the term to be "piffle." I am not seeking to define it, Ardy. I presented several definitions of others who were supportive of 'altruism'. If you have more -- without engaging in a complete dilation of definition -- that you think are valid, bring them on.:-) Yours, Issodhos
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Numan,  Thank you, Phil. And I also appreciate your signature line. Some time ago I came up with a sententia which expresses much the same thought: Your mind is not your friend.It sometimes flickers among my thoughts when I read certain postings. I think many people need to be altruistic toward themselves.
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I think many people need to be altruistic toward themselves. ...and maybe eat fruit more often. 
"I believe very deeply that compassion is the route not only for the evolution of the full human being, but for the very survival of the human race." —The Dalai Lama
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The more formal usage is seen in such things as public service, charitable activities, political activities and even the idea that society must be redesigned to be based on altruism. Except for the very last of your examples, none of the others necessarily fits the "more formal" definition, iss. It's no wonder you think altruism is a "load of piffle." People don't engage in public service selflessly. They make their choices based on what excites them, inspires them, gives them a sense of wholeness or appeals to their sympathies. People generally engage in political activities that are similarly beneficial to them. And often people's choices of charities is based on personal connections - relatives, loved ones, or one's own experiences. None of those represent any sort of self-denial. It's only when the "must" is added on that we begin to see the influence of Comte. And even then, if one is imposed upon to engage in altruistic actions, the irony is that it would no longer be considered altruistic because one is not doing it willingly. That's the point of departure from Comte's definition to the modern usage. Whether it be Mother Theresa, Save the Children, community organizers, Habitat for Humanity, etc., they are motivated to satisfy their own needs, desires, and expectations. Of course they are! At least, in part. That's exactly my point. A point you are apparently unwilling to concede based on the narrow, myopic view that any vestige of self-interest in one's actions precludes defining them as "altruistic". You are of course entitled to define it any way you like, and dismiss it summarily. But the rest of humanity is entitled to accept the more colloquial definition because, for the sake of effective communications, it is helpful to take the meaning of words as they are commonly used. How does one voluntarily do what one chooses to do and then try to claim it is not motivated by a satisfaction to self? Yours, Issodhos Why do you insist on denying the validity of other people's experiences?
Steve Give us the wisdom to teach our children to love, to respect and be kind to one another, so that we may grow with peace in mind. (Native American prayer)
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This does bring up the valid question of whether is is possible for an act to be altruistic from the point of view of the actor. A thought interestingly presented in T. S. Elliott's Becket play-- Murder in the Cathedral, I think it's called.
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I have often done things of benefit for other people, in ways that more self-absorbed people thought were reckless and damaging to myself. I find it amazing how often such actions have worked to my benefit, often in quite surprising ways. I am quite sure that calculations of self-benefit were quite absent from my motivations, nor, in many cases, could they have been foreseen. What I did seemed as natural as breathing --- feeling my way to a little more harmony and beauty in my environment. Setting aside for the moment the curtain of mysticism being generously applied, much as you might want it to "seem" "natural", you apparently did what rewarded you, motivated by a desire to interact with those you say you benefited, more than you were motivated to not interact with them. It was to your greater satisfaction than not to do so. What you did may have been a good thing to do, but this thing called altruism did not enter into it. Yours, Issodhos P.s. The toy thingie? I too often wondered about that until I figured out what the answer was.;-)
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I have often done things of benefit for other people, in ways that more self-absorbed people thought were reckless and damaging to myself. I find it amazing how often such actions have worked to my benefit, often in quite surprising ways. I am quite sure that calculations of self-benefit were quite absent from my motivations, nor, in many cases, could they have been foreseen. What I did seemed as natural as breathing --- feeling my way to a little more harmony and beauty in my environment. Setting aside for the moment the curtain of mysticism being generously applied, much as you might want it to "seem" "natural", you apparently did what rewarded you, motivated by a desire to interact with those you say you benefited, more than you were motivated to not interact with them. It was to your greater satisfaction than not to do so. I guess that must be true, since you say so. -
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Numan, a question: what is the value of humoring slugs? Purely a philosophical inquiry.
"The white men were as thick and numerous and aimless as grasshoppers, moving always in a hurry but never seeming to get to whatever place it was they were going to." Dee Brown
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