Having dreams is great, but fixating on dreams that never come true is for losers.
Gee I'll bet all those losers in the Civil Rights, Workers Rights, Women's Rights, Gay Rights, etc. movements are so sorry that you hadn't told them this before they started. Then they could have just waited for things to happen instead of making them happen.
And those soldiers who died in WWII could have stayed home, while millions were fried, and waited until they voted Hitler out of office.
Ah yes, it is the losers who create change. Interesting...
