You have I've never met a black American who didn't go to church.

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Yeah well, I guess you haven't met a lot of black Americans?

But seriously, not all of them are religious. And a LOT of gay black men LEFT their churches and organized religion altogether specifically because of the hostile environment.
I wish you could meet Patrick Henderson. I will probably talk with him this weekend and one of us is bound to bring up the latest Methodist brouhaha.
Traditionalists prevail in United Methodist Church sexuality conversation