My ex and I got along quite well, once we no longer lived together. We had a very amiable divorce. Once the judge believed I wasn't trying to pull a scam he was delighted. She would even come over for a quickie when things were scarce in the romance department, and dropped by to show me her new boobs. I honestly don't think that was a ploy: I always liked her before picture. I just stopped seeing her as per the wishes of my girlfriend/wife.