Pics or it didn't happen.
Chistians say a lot of things, most of it pulled straight from their asses. Let's try to stick to facts here, the Bible is not a valid reference.
I agree that Jefferey should have been booted from the church for co-habitation prior to marriage and besmirching the reputation of his pastor by doing so. I expect that from the church. They're basically assh*oles that way. Judgemental holier than thou pricks so to speak. Ministering only to the faithful and obedient.