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Interesting turn to the conversation. There is a growing divide within the gay community about the identity-assimilation issue. I fall into the identity camp, preferring to use the word "queer" for those of any sexual orientation who live with less attention to convention and occupy much of their lives outside the mainstream. It is an alternative lifestyle.

Gay for me is a sexual identity term, not so much a lifestyle.

This is reflected in the annual parades. Many, especially younger, gays would rather the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, leather daddies, topless women and naked boys stay away. They want very much to be "just like you" except for what they do sexually.

I really enjoy the open display of exotic, rude and sexually explicit behavior. I like to always be expanding your horizons rather than conform to them.

I respect assimilates and only object when they ask me to change to suit their needs.

The parade I saw