I'm not sure it's an "inconsistency", CM, unless you are referring to the fact that the rewards and obligations of legal marriage are afforded to some couples but denied to others. But I don't see any inconsistency at all as regards intimacy: the government does not in any way require or even inquire about a couple's intimacy.

Which brings me back to your previous assertion that "that the religious conservatives and the gay community both very much want government involvement in their intimate personal lives." Given that the government has neither requirement about nor interest in a couple's intimacy, how do you see religious conservatives and the gay community wanting the government involved in their intimate personal lives?


Steve
Give us the wisdom to teach our children to love,
to respect and be kind to one another,
so that we may grow with peace in mind.

(Native American prayer)