I've "heard" that if you're Mormon AND gay - well life is pretty much not worth living and it takes YEARS of therapy to get over the brainwashing done to gays by the Morman Church.
If you're Mormon and gay, you're unhappily married and either have or plan to have many kids. You also firmly believe as an unquestioned matter of faith, way down deep in your repressed psyche, that God never intended sexual intercourse to be an enjoyable act, and it is only proper for conception. You also keep track of your wife's cycles on the calendar.
Yeah, it probably does take years of therapy for gays who were once Mormon to get over their neurosis, but if you're gay and still Mormon: as long as I'm discrete, may I date your wife? It's liable to make her much more agreeable to her ball and chain of a husband.
