Although, I see your point: it doesn't matter who is attached to the d!ck if all you care about is your own satisfaction. It becomes quasi masturbatory and not really intimate.
Indeed. In the gay community, these guys are called 'power bottoms.' These bottoms control the 'top' who merely satisfying the 'passive' bottom's needs and desires.
In reality, all the bottom has to do is lie there and be "done" by the top. No effort needed or required on the bottom's part - except for the occasional direction by the bottom that the top isn't doing it right.
