Those comments by Trump are not, for me, enough to disqualify him from the Presidency but only because they were made in private. I myself have made my share of regrettable private comments. Trump lost my vote months ago for his public antics. The man is a slimeball and unfit for the Presidency.
While I think what he said shows what kind of a$$hat he really is, I agree with you. He was always a slimeball any way you cut it. And the outrage of so many of the other ignorant things he said should be even greater.