In the case of my (Possibly)real daughter, I might not have done my best. Her mother and I spoke the night she was born, I offered to marry her, she passed. We lost touch for 18 years. My name is on the birth certificate.

That kid believed I was her dad. Since she was able to read she knew her dad's name but not where he was. At 18 her mom told her. So it was a really big deal for her to find her "real dad". I never asked for any test, I took responsibility for what my dick did 18 years ago. Even if it might been somebody else's dick...

Some men do some men don't. Top of my head I'd guess that it's a 70/30 split. Lotta men have raised a lot of other men's kids as if they were their own, and a lotta men have owned up to their mistakes.

It doesn't raise my estimation of men in the slightest. That 30% contains some real assh*les.

Good coffee, good weed, and time on my hands...